Now is your chance to learn more about this secret area and the sex positions that can help increase your A-Spot pleasure–to achieve sensations that you never had before.
What Exactly is the A-Spot?
You can think of the A-Spot, also known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone, as a pleasurable, hidden gem inside your body. It’s located between a woman’s cervix and bladder, inside the vaginal canal and close to the G-spot.
A Quick Guide to Find Your A-Spot:
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Lie comfortably against your back, and use a finger or an adult toy to stimulate the vagina internally.
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Go inside carefully about five inches deep.
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Angle your finger or toy upwards toward your belly button by using a “come hither” motion.
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Because everyone is different, try to experiment with pressure, to find what feels good for you.
To successfully find your A-Spot, you can start by using the right pressure when exploring yourself.
7 Best Sex Positions to Ignite the A-Spot
Now that you’ve learned the simple steps on how to find your A-Spot, these seven positions can further enhance its sensation in the bedroom when making love with your partner.
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Apex
The Apex position can offer couples a sense of vulnerability while feeling pleasure, because of the thrill and restriction that it gives.
How to do it:
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Find a sturdy chair that won’t let you and your partner tip over. Make sure it’s stable and can support a person’s weight for safety.
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The woman can bend over while holding the most stable part of the chair, while her partner lifts her–to wrap her legs around his waist for support.
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In this position, he can penetrate her from behind, while enjoying the thrill of maintaining both of their balance and stimulating her A-Spot.
Pro Tips:
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Always talk to your partner about pressure, speed, and angle to make sure you’re always comfortable.
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Start slow, and experiment with angles by adjusting your bodies.
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You can use pillows under the hips or belly when supporting your body using the backrest of the chair.
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Descent
The Descent position can help stimulate the A-Spot by positioning the woman’s body in a way that he can penetrate her better–by making her more relaxed and open.
How to do it:
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She can lie on her back against a soft space, like a bed or couch, while her neck is supported by a pillow to avoid any strain.
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He can lift her hips while he’s on the edge of the bed or couch, to put her in an inclined position.
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The man can either stand or kneel, so he can match the height of the surface. He can hold her legs upward and in front of him, so he can find the best angle to penetrate her.
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He can experiment by raising or lowering her legs, to find the best angle that gives her the best A-spot stimulation.
Pro Tips:
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The receiving partner can use her hands to stimulate her clitoris and other erogenous zones.
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Aside from placing pillows under her neck, he can also put some pillows under her hips for better support.
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Stickman
Another sex position that you can add to your list to improve your sex life this year is the Stickman. The Stickman can provide couples a different sensation by stimulating the A-spot from the front.
How to do it:
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First, choose a comfortable couch or bed that can support a person’s weight, with ample space to allow your partner to move freely.
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The receiving partner can bend over the couch rest, with her face gently pressing on the seat. He can adjust his position to make his hips get slightly elevated.
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The giving partner can position himself to penetrate her from behind, while her legs are bent.
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The couple can adjust as needed and make sure to communicate to maintain comfort and maximize their pleasure.
Pro Tips:
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Same with the Descent position, she can use pillows or pads to cushion her body for extra comfort.
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Since the receiving partner’s hands are free, they can be used for extra support or stimulate their pleasure areas.
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Moreover, they can explore with toys that focus on A-spot stimulation.
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Look to the Sky
The Look to the Sky sex position is a variation of the cowgirl position that can offer you more excitement. It’s also best to do this position in the dining area, because it’s more effective when a table and chair is used.
How to do it:
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Prepare the setting by finding a sturdy table and chair that doesn’t wobble and is safe. You can also clear the surrounding area of the table to create enough space for movement.
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He can lie with his back against the edge of the table as the giving partner, with both of his feet securely planted on the chair.
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She can place herself at the top of him, doing the cowgirl position with her feet placed on the table. She can lean back to use her arms to support herself by holding onto the chair’s backrest.
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Once the balance is established, she can ride him by rotating and grinding her hips, while the partner below can use his hands to support her or stimulate other erogenous zones.
Pro Tips:
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Try to prioritize safety above all else. Make sure that you and your partner are comfortable, by communicating clearly.
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To prevent any injury, the couple can enhance their core muscles first to maintain their balance and prevent any potential injuries.
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Skewer
Another position that you can try to stimulate the A-spot is the Skewer sex position. This sex position is a variation of the missionary position–so it can appear tame at first glance. However, it can surprisingly give couples an intense pleasure once done correctly.
How to do it:
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The receiving partner can lie against her back at the bed, with her hips slightly over the edge to provide more access.
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While she’s lying, her partner can kneel in front of the bed and face her.
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He can start penetrating her while she’s lying, and adjust the angle to find and target the A-spot.
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The giving partner can give thrusting motions after penetration. He can also use his hands to securely hold her hips, or stimulate his clitoris or nipples.
Pro Tips:
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The kneeling partner can use pads to provide a soft surface when kneeling on the floor.
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The giving partner can alternate between slow and deep thrusts, to faster and shallower thrusts to find out what works for the both of them.
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Launch Pad
The Launch Pad sex position can be an adventurous yet a very intimate position for many. Because of the unique arrangement of the couple’s bodies, it can provide a great angle and depth that can surely and successfully stimulate the A-spot.
How to do it:
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While the giving partner kneels on the bed, he can position himself, with legs spread wide, and allow enough space for the receiving partner to lie between his legs.
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The receiving partner can lie back between her partner’s legs, while bending her knees towards his chest.
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Next, he can penetrate her using the right angle to hit the A-spot. Once penetration has been achieved, he can begin to use slow then intense thrusting.
Pro Tips:
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Communicate and experiment with the right positioning and angles, particularly for feet placement. If it becomes uncomfortable, you can always talk to your partner to make some adjustments.
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This position might not be the most comfortable for everyone for extended periods, so it’s best to take breaks to avoid strain and fatigue.
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Octopus
The Octopus sex position can be a challenging one–because you both need to be flexible to do this.
How to do it:
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The giving partner can sit on the bed first, with legs extended and slightly spread. He can lean back slightly and use his arms to support his body.
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Next, the receiving partner can sit in between his legs, while facing him. She can position herself so she’ll align her genitals to his.
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Then, he can bend his legs and almost wrap it around her body. Before receiving him, she needs to place her hands on the bed at her backside, and her ankles should rest on his shoulders.
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Once stable, he can start penetrating her, and they can use their core muscles to adjust their bodies and control their movements.
Pro Tip:
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When doing this position, start slowly to make sure that the both of you are comfortable and fully supported.
Spice It Up
So, we’ve finished discussing the ways to find that special area–from bending over a chair to wrapping your legs around your partner, there’s always something available to make couples fulfilled and happy.
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